knitting as therapy

How knitting can help you stop the scroll

Let’s face it - if I could figure out a way to knit and scroll my phone at the same time I probably would have done it by now.

The fact of the matter is that it is near on impossible to scroll and knit a sock at the same time. Unless you are somehow a contortionist who can scroll with their toes. And as my morning yoga sessions with attest, I am definitely not a bendy person.

I have been on a bit of a mission to redefine my relationship with my phone recently. I use it for lots of useful and helpful things - banking, yoga, reading on my Kindle app, texting my mum. But those social media apps are so persuasive, so tempting that before you know it you find yourself 30 minutes later, knee deep in cat videos with a cold cup of coffee at your side.

Helpfully though, knitting has been my saviour.

I’ve been reading a book called The Phone Fix by Dr Faye Begeti and she talks about ‘surfing the urge’.

When you have the urge to open an app - say Instagram - ‘just to check’, she suggests you stop and pause.

You aren’t telling yourself no to opening up the app. You are just saying ‘not yet’, It’s a bit like telling a toddler that they can have the sweets - just not yet.

Then she suggests you find something else to do for 5 minutes, whether that be to read a book, wash some dishes, make a hot drink. You get the idea. The aim is to just distract your brain long enough to make you wonder whether you really want to check out that app or not.

It will come as no surprise that for me, knitting has proved invaluable in this kind of distraction activity. And 90% of the time, if I tell myself I will knit for 5 minutes I end up knitting for far longer than that.

It’s a win win. I get more knitting time and my brain benefits from fewer doom scrolling moments.

Permission Slip

For the first time in over a week I've felt like picking up my pen and writing. Most days I knit, but if I'm struggling either mentally or physically then my writing is the first thing to go - which is ironic as writing is the thing I know that helps me the most.

Getting thoughts out of my head and into paper is the best kind of therapy there is - a notebook never judges after all.

And the first thing I'm writing today is a big fat Permission Slip.

Feeling unwell and spending more time in the house I've been online a lot more. Yesterday I realized that I had spent most of the day circling around Twitter reading a mish mash of facts, opinions and rants from people as scared as I was. Put simply it was the worst way to spend my day.

So inspired by JessicaRoseWilliams on Instagram today I've come up with a few simple strategies on my permission slip to myself

1. Turn off Twitter (in fact delete it from my phone this weekend)

2. Check out the WHO and Public Health England website once per day

3. Watch the main news headlines and then turn it off

4. Journal a page a day. No censorship just write how I feel without having to adjust it to consider how what I say affects others (my youngest son is very upset by this too)

5. Go for a daily walk

6. Cook something nice from scratch, even if it's just carrot soup

7. Read a book - fiction - and as far from the 21st century as possible

8. Hug my family

We often joke about retreating into our ""family bubble" at difficult times - at least we have plenty of experience of that

Just writing this helped me, I hope it helps you too 💕