Knitting life

It takes a village...

Knitting on a West Yorkshire Spinners sock

There is a well known phrase which originated from an African proverb

It takes a village to raise a child

It refers to the idea that raising a child is an incredibly difficult thing to do, and that by banding together and seeking support from others you not only improve your own child’s situation but you benefit and strengthen the whole community.

Whilst knitting is in no way comparable to the difficulties involved in raising a child, I firmly believe that it ‘takes a village’ to raise and nurture a knitter.

In the past knitting was seen as a solitary endeavour, and if it was done in company it was usually by necessity as women grouped together to undertake chores - and they simply knit along with everything else that they were doing at the time. There undoubtedly was some support and help available though, to help guide the new knitter and it was very common for skills to be shared among friends and passed down to children.

These days many knitters are self-taught and knit, often at home for recreation and relaxation. Today’s knitter might not be able to call on a network of friends and relations for help but they have the whole internet at their disposal. Whatever the time of day or night, whatever the question there will undoubtedly be a knitter online somewhere who can answer your question, or a quick Google search might reveal a whole host of tutorials and ‘how to’s’ to answer your particular question.

Such a choice can be a little overwhelming of course, and as with everything it’s important to get your information from trusted sources, but for me, the online knitting community is unparalleled in the information it freely offers. People in general are incredibly generous with both their time and their expertise in a way that I have rarely encountered in other spheres.

By contributing to and learning from online knitters, we not only improve our own skills and knowledge but we help to strengthen and integrate the whole community - everyone benefits and it’s a brilliant thing to feel you are a part of.

One of the reasons I created the Everyday Knitter Facebook group was because I wanted to have a freely available resource for knitters to come together and share their work and their experience. I know that Facebook certainly has it’s issues and it isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. But a well-run, spam-free Facebook group (which the Everyday Knitter group is) is an invaluable online community, something which I would have loved to have had access to when I was a beginner knitter all those years ago.

I’m a bit biased obviously, but if you’d like to check it out for yourself and you are looking for a drama free group that’s ‘All about the Knitting’ then please just tap the link below - I’d love to see you there.


Can we talk about shawl storage?

Can we talk for a minute about shawl storage? As knitters and crocheters we spend an inordinate amount of time talking about shawls, planning shawls, working on shawls. But we spend very little time actually talking about what we do with them once we’ve made them. Specifically, how do you store shawls?

Assuming they aren’t given away or put into long term storage (moths are not our friend) we need to talk about how we actually store the shawls that we have in daily use.

As much as I love the idea of just displaying them on the wall as hanging art objects I fear that those I live with might not share my enthusiasm so I asked on Twitter recently what people use.

There were some brilliant and eminently practical suggestions which I’d like to pass on to you here. All of these are from commercial companies - and so - mindful of potential copyright restrictions I have just provided the link to the website rather than actual accompanying images.

Hanging storage seems like the perfect solution

mDesign Wardrobe Organiser for Scarves - for The Organised Storage of Scarves and Shawls in Your Wardrobe - Ideal as Scarf Holder and Shawl Organiser - 16 Loops - Clear : Amazon.co.uk: Home & Kitchen

Holders designed for ties would also work well

Personalised Wooden Tie Scarf Belt Hanger & Rack Storage - Etsy UK

Scarf hanger from Etsy

Heart Scarf Hanger - Etsy UK

Or this nifty one that would hang over a cupboard door

Tie and Scarf 360 Degree Rotating Hanger - Etsy UK

I’ve also seen people repurposing hat stands or hallway coat hooks, which I’d love to do - sadly precluded by having the world’s tiniest hallway, but I love how they look in other people’s houses.

Blanket ladders are also a great idea and Etsy has a great selection:

Blanket Ladder - Etsy UK

This is the option that I have ended up going for and I am awaiting it’s delivery with keen interest. I like the fact that they take up very little space and will hopefully keep them free from feline interference.

For now, my shawls in use reside over the stair rail - definitely not ideal, not least because Blossom likes to use them to perch on, ready to pounce on her brother.

How about you? If you have a nifty shawl storage solution do please let me know.

MKALs - are surprises overrated?

It’s an interesting question isn’t it - and one which I’ve thought about a lot in my years as a knitter. It’s that time of year again when knitalongs abound and the FOMO (fear of missing out) is strong as I survey Instagram and see everyone’s amazing yarn choices and spoiler alerts.

It looks so tempting, and a very large part of me is desperate to throw my WIPs to the wind and dive into the glorious planning stage of a Shiny New Project.

Perusing websites, squishing yarns and generally having a lovely 'high-on-yarn-fumes’ time.

Because while you are in the planning stage, this project is perfect. It can literally do no wrong. It is going to be amazing, the best shawl ever.

But is it though? I think we all know the answer to this one and it starts with ‘Maybe…’.

With a mystery KAL especially there is always that tiny voice at the back of my mind that says ‘ah, but will you wear it though?’ Will it join the very large, 5-skein shawl at the back of the wardrobe that cost you an arm and leg, and yet to my shame I never wear.

Shame isn’t an emotion that I particularly want to have attached to my knitting, but nevertheless there it is. Looking at me every time I reach to the back of the wardrobe.

One argument for an MKAL is that you invariably learn something new along the way, and that’s undoubtably true but at the end of the day it’s all about balance. And I can learn new techniques once I’ve actually seen what I am supposed to be achieving.

I don’t deal well with uncertainty at the best of times and grappling with an unfamiliar technique when I’m totally in the dark about how it is ‘supposed’ to look can send my blood pressure sky high.

In addition, I have to be sensible (groans) and recognise that I have limited time available to knit the designs I have in my pipeline, never mind the socks and other items that my knit-worthy family ask for. When I do have a bit of knitting downtime, often I’m looking for something super simple rather than something that will challenge me. There’s a reason that I’ve knit over 10 Hitchhiker shawls.

And who would I be knitting it for? That’s a slightly more tricky question because then I would be forced to ask myself whether I’m knitting it for me, really for me, or so that I have something new and shiny to share on social media, so that I felt part of a club.

Obviously, this is entirely my own thought process here and I’m attaching no judgement of others to this at all - just sharing my own jumbled up thoughts. I have definitely taken part in KALs and MKALs before and had a whale of a time. I think it’s more a case of context - at a time when I have a lot going on, the added pressure of keeping up with a KAL can just feel like one more thing on my to-do list and no-one wants to feel like that about their hobby.

All this is a very long winded way of saying ‘it depends’ isn’t it?

I guess it just shows that we don’t knit in a vacuum and that our choices on what to knit are governed as much by timings and personal cicrcumstances as anything else.

How about you? How do you feel about MKALs - and are there are any particular designers who always have you rushing to take part? Or you happy to watch from a distance and maybe cast on later, once you have had a good look at it?

Something completely different

As a change from coffee and knitting, may I present tea and crochet.

This #GiantGrannySquare has been on go for ages (actually I checked back and I started it in 2020) and I was originally doing one colour for each round using scrap sock yarn leftover from other projects.

Then I stalled as each round started to take over 15g - meaning that a lot of my leftover yarn balls wouldn’t stretch to a full round. But there were still a heck of a lot of them to use up.

So last week I bit the bullet and made a magic ball with all my scraps (in colours that worked). I hand wound them into a mahoosive 240g ball and am now going to just whizz round and round trying very hard not to stress about colour placement. I figure that now it has reached a sufficient size (it was a 40” square last time I checked) it won’t be as obvious if there are colour changes mid-round.

This is quite a big deal for me as I normally fuss about how colours line up and embracing a devil may care attitude does not come naturally.

YARN JOINING: I used this tutorial for the magic knot technique but others methods are also available. An alternative would be to just tie a good sturdy knot leaving sufficient ends - and just work those in for a few stitches at the yarn join.

But in the spirit of #HaveAGoFriday (my recently made up thing - and something I talked about last week) I shall be adding to my blanket today and just going with the flow.

Oh - and the tea is a necessity as another handy menopause side effect has been a dramatic reduction in my caffeine tolerance (deep joy).

Ways to support your LYS (without spending money)

It goes without saying, that you are welcome to support them with actual money as well :)

When I originally wrote this article times were tough for our local yarn shops (LYSs). Since then they have got worse. Much worse. Most weeks bring news of more LYSs closing or online stores either closing completely or reducing their range available.

Since I originally wrote this piece in 2020 we have lived through Covid and repeated lockdowns, the impact of Brexit (the economic equivalent of driving the country off a cliff) and now the cost of living crisis which sees businesses facing eye watering increases in their bills.

It’s hard to understate the impact this is having on business in general, and small businesses in particular. Large chain stores can absorb some of the impact, our LYSs - put simply - cannot.

Obviously times are hard for everyone and stocking up your yarn cupboard might not be top of your list but there are ways and means to continue to support our LYSs. The original article lists 5:

  1. Leave a FB or social media review

  2. Tag them on social media and share their posts

  3. If they have a newsletter, share it with your pals

  4. Offer to knit store samples or do a product review

  5. Recommend them, often, rather than the ‘big box’ stores

To these suggestions I would also add the following:

6. Put them on your Christmas or birthday wish list

7. Ask for gift vouchers - or give these as birthday gifts to friends

8. Grow new knitters - chat to friends and see if anyone is keen to learn

9. Enquire about courses/classes

10. Don’t forget the power of local media - mention them on local FB groups or a letter to the local paper thanking them for good service etc.

To steal from a notorious large supermarket “every little helps”, but in this case it really does.

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If you knit something set it free

For todays #Blogtober post I am re-sharing an older post from the archives, prompted by a discussion that has been circulating on Twitter. A lady in her late 60s crocheted a blanket for a young man, only to be hurt when the gift was rejected.

There are many ‘hot takes’ on this and undoubtedly there are more gracious ways to deal with an unwanted gift but at the heart of this lies the central tenet that handcrafters tend to overemphasise the significance of handmade items, whereas for non crafters it tends to be the opposite and they underestimate their significance.

Anything handmade involves a significant investment of time and energy and it makes sense, upfront to determine what you are hoping to achieve with a handmade gift and to take the time to ensure that it is something the recipient will actually want and use.

The original post on this subject: If You Knit Something Set It Free was written in 2017 and apart from an outdated Ravelry reference it’s still just as relevant today as it was then.